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The receptionist desk will be “womanned” Monday through Thursday from 9 AM to 1 PM for routine Parish business and Mass Cards.  On Friday there will be more limited service.
Please call ahead when in doubt.  631-499-8520.

The Parish Center is not open on a general basis in the current public health crisis at this time.

Important Telephone extensions for general non-emergency messages:

Parish Secretary: 126
Parish Business Manager: 113
Religious Education (CCD): 128
Pastor: 130

For urgent calls for Last Rites or a similar emergency:
631-912-5955

Contact information regarding Funerals is on the Parish Voice Mail phone greeting  631-499-8520.

As before, please enter the Parish Center through the Main Entrance only, not the Gym Entrance.

 The Main Entrance is between the shrines to Sts. Padre Pio and Mother Teresa of Calcutta.

The inner doors to the building are to the right. Please note the sign to ring the bell for admittance.

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Religious Freedom’s Tenuous 21st Century Foothold

The “Fifth Columnist”

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Dear Friends,

Eighty-five years ago a term entered the language that enjoyed a long vogue. In 1936, during the Spanish Civil War, a general laying siege to Madrid was asked how many columns (of troops) he had. He replied that he had four columns outside the city, but a “fifth column inside.”

He meant a secret force of sympathizers and guerillas who would aid him from within the besieged city.

From that time, the term Fifth Columnist came to mean an “enemy within,” a secretive foe hidden within a society, a country, or an organization.

In today’s Gospel we hear of the attempt by the Devil to divert Jesus from His nature and mission by means of various temptations. At every turn, the Evil One was rebuffed. We are told in Saint Luke’s account that the Devil left him “to await another opportunity.” All through the public ministry of Jesus we see Him confronted with devils, demons, false witness, slander, and finally a murderous conspiracy.

It seems that Satan never let up till his apparent victory on Good Friday which proved his undoing. At the very end of public written Revelation, Saint John, in the series of visions recorded in the Book of Revelations, or Apocalypse, describes a frustrated and enraged Satan cast out of heaven and come to earth to “wage war upon those who give witness to Jesus.” That means US, dear friends.

You see, in Jesus the Incarnate Son of God, God and Man, he could find no “fifth column” to aid him in his siege of the Man from Nazareth. He could only peer at, and study, the outward human nature of this (to him) perplexing figure; and attempt to lead Him astray by the standard temptations of power, fame, or fear.

However, in us he finds a Fifth Columnist: what Saint Paul calls “the old self” and also “the flesh.” In us, the Devil finds an ally.

In our Baptism the “stain” or presence of what is called “Original Sin” was removed. Today, we are reluctant to advert too much to this: a mistake in my opinion. Saint Paul in his own blunt language says that we are born “children of wrath.” In a mysterious way, every one born into the world inherits the “sin of Adam” that debars the unaided human soul entry into God’s Kingdom. Jesus Christ is precisely the “Redeemer” in that through His Death and Resurrection He buys us back (the root meaning of the Latin redimere) from sin and perpetual loss.

That redemption is first applied to us at our Baptism and is renewed, restored, and strengthened by all the other Sacraments we will receive in our lifetime. This personal salvation however, is not assured to us. It can be lost. We retain within our very being, not Original Sin itself, but its lingering after-effects. We are like men and women who once having suffered a heart-attack and recovered always remain “a cardiac.”

We are all sinners, even if not at the moment in any serious sin. We carry with us the damage of a sin-weakened nature: a limited and often confused intellect, a weakened will, and a mortal body. Catholic doctrine holds that while the human being is essentially good, he is prone to sin. THAT is the “fifth column” within us that the Devil finds; and tries to work with. Our defects of temperament and character.

If we are by “nature” timorous, hesitant, fearful of responsibility, he tries to fan that into moral cowardice and spiritual sloth.

If we are ebullient and sanguine, he tries to make us rash and hasty.

If we are able and self-assured, he tries to push us into pride, arrogance; sharp-tongued and contemptuous of others.

f we are passionate and hot-blooded, he tries to make us angry, loud, gluttonous, drunk, lustful, addicted to self-will and ease, and easily discouraged at failure.

There are many such examples. In Jesus our Lord he could find no such “fifth column.” In us, well, we all know the truth that best describes us. Or, do we? Few people are good at “self-knowledge.” I know I am not. How often do we hear someone rattle on about the faults of others and we listen with a sardonic smile as we think he’s really describing himself?

One of the purposes of Lent is to help us know ourselves. Our Lenten penances should ideally aim at our sins and defects as God sees them, which might be at variance with our own estimation. We might be giving up some little snack for 40 days; while we really should maybe keep our mouths shut, stay off the phone, or turn off the computer for a couple of hours a week. Let us ask the Holy Spirit for the wisdom and courage both to know ourselves and where we need change and repentance.

Let us ask the Holy Spirit for the wisdom and courage both to know ourselves and to pen up that Fifth Columnist inside.

God’s blessings,

Father Hewes

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The ‘Equality Act’ Discriminates

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February 25, 2021

The ‘Equality Act’ discriminates against people of faith
and threatens unborn life.
Tell Congress you oppose it!

Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and dignity. The so-called Equality Act, which is being voted on in the U.S. House of Representatives soon, in many ways does the opposite and needs to be opposed. Instead of respecting differences in beliefs about marriage and sexuality, the Equality Act would discriminate against people of faith.

The Equality Act would: punish faith-based organizations, such as charities and schools who serve everyone in their communities, simply because of their beliefs; force girls and women to compete against boys and men for limited opportunities in sports, and to share locker rooms and shower spaces with biological males who identify as women; risk mandating taxpayers to fund abortions; force people in everyday life, and especially health care workers, to support gender transition; and expand what the government considers a “public” place, forcing even some parish halls to host functions that conflict with Catholic beliefs.

The US Conference of Catholic Bishops have made it easy to let your members of Congress know that you oppose the so-called Equality Act.

Visit the USCCB Action Center, enter your information and an email will be sent on your behalf. To read more about the Equality Act visit https://www.usccb.org/equality-act

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To What Shall We Give Our Soul?

Mass Intentions

A Letter from our Pastor 2.1.2022

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Dear friends,

Some “facts and figures” concerning the clergy situation here at St. Matthew’s:

When I arrived as pastor of St. Matthew’s in 2010 the clergy personnel situation was as follows:

  • One full time pastor.
  • Two full time associate pastors.
  • Four permanent deacons.
  • Two visiting priests every Sunday.
  • Three Sunday visiting priests available for the Extraordinary Form Mass in the Chapel plus myself.

Almost all the above were vocations drawn from Long Island.

Today eleven years later the situation is as follows:

  • One full time pastor.
  • Still two full time associate pastors, though two of the three priests are 70 and over.
  • One active permanent deacon available for Masses and other sacraments who is now handling all the pre-Baptism and pre-wedding work and many wedding ceremonies.
  • No visiting priests.

Clearly then this has, and will continue to have, an impact on the life of the Parish that depends upon priestly or diaconal service.

The level of sacramental and liturgical services will necessarily be affected.

There is little practical expectation that this situation will improve in the near future at least; and certain things might need to be re-evaluated.

This is not unique to Saint Matthew’s Parish. Throughout the diocese, it is not only a question of mere numbers of priests, but also the pastoral effectiveness of those numbers given age, health, and other factors.

There is also little “cushion” for things such as expected and unexpected absences from the parish by the priests such as legitimate time off, annual retreat, family or health emergencies. ( To be autobiographical a bit, last May I had out-patient surgery that kept me off the weekend Mass schedule; as well as an unexpected in-patient hospitalization for five days last Fall.)

The current schedule of Masses and other Sacramental celebrations will be maintained for now, but it is not at all unlikely that changes in that and other liturgical services can be expected as time goes on.

I offer you these thoughts for your prayerful awareness.

In my opinion, this is also a further challenge for the Diocesan Bishop and his advisors to confront: namely a just and effective distribution of diocesan priests throughout the diocese. Another challenge is the feasibility of maintaining the current number of parishes (135) with a diminishing number of able, active, and capable diocesan priests to staff at least one in each. There is also the tendency to expect one to do more with less. From my perspective, it seems to me that each diocesan office in Rockville Centre runs at full tilt, and a flood of emails, deadlines, notices, statements, queries, and occasional demands issue forth from “headquarters”.

Well, as they say in the military, “That’s above my Pay Grade.”

 God’s blessings,
Father Hewes

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Letter from the Pastor, September 2020

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September 21, 2020

Feast of St. Matthew

Dear friends,

I thought I’d just give you some updates as to our current situation in the Parish on this our Patron Saint’s feast day.

We have opened  the pews to 50% capacity. This additional space can make social distancing a bit more spacious and less inhibiting.

The wearing of masks is still required when in the pews during Mass and other services.

Sunday the 20th marked the resumption of a fuller musical program at Sunday Mass. The English “High Mass” resumed every Sunday at 11 AM and the other Masses with music resume the singing of the “Gloria”.

As of this writing, the 12:30 PM Mass on Sunday is the traditional Latin “Missa Cantata” or sung Mass. The next date is Sunday, September 27th.

We are seeing a gradual increase in physical Mass attendance overall.   The Sunday Mass Obligation remains suspended, however.

Per recommendation from the Diocese, we will not be providing the usual “Missalettes” in the pew racks for the foreseeable future. They can serve as a transmission medium for not only the Coronavirus, but other germs as well.  There are, however, many durable personal Missals available from various publishers that you can purchase and keep that do not need replacement every year. There are also online sites such as us.magnificat.net that offer online and downloadable missalettes as well as other devotional material.

The First Holy Communion Masses have gone well and perhaps because they have to be simpler than in the past, the atmosphere at all the Masses has been noticeably reverent and devotional. Next month we plan our “make up” Confirmations on October 20th under similar simpler circumstances.

My thanks go out to Mary Donaldson, Rita Minder, and the Religious Education catechists form their hard and dedicated planning and execution of these Sacramental celebrations as well as their good humor through all the vicissitudes of these “interesting times”.

Sister Kay McCarthy continues to recuperate from home after her knee replacement surgery. Keep her in your prayers.

I am very grateful for the continuing generous response of so many to my appeal for donations to help make up this past fiscal year’s unavoidable deficit. We have almost reached the projected target figure that we have had to budget in for help close the gap.

What makes it particularly humbling is that most, if not all, of you have experienced your own financial uncertainty and yet to date donations have been coming in every day.

God’s blessings to you all, as always!
Father Robert Hewes

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A Letter from our Pastor-1.11.22

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January 11, 2021

Dear friends,

Just recently I received a request from a parishioner asking me to institute a segregated seating section in the Parish Church for non-masked congregants at Mass.

I would refer you to this parish website further down where you will find a letter from me with regard to the latest decree from NYS government on masking. It contains our official Diocesan policy in this regard.  It clearly indicates that it is not my or any other private citizen’s responsibility to enforce this regulation. I have instructed the Clergy and Extraordinary Ministers to sanitize their hands and wear masks for the distribution of Holy Communion for the time being, which is within my responsibility and authority as pastor.

For the rest, it is up to each of us to decide how we will live our lives in this extraordinary time. We might ask ourselves:

Am I especially vulnerable?

Even though I wear a mask, does the fact that someone at well more than six feet away is unmasked constitute a threat to my health?

Is my scratchy throat, runny nose, body aches, etc. my usual winter cold, or is it the latest variant of the Covid virus?

Shall I wear a mask indoors or not?

Should I do so just out of regard in charity for those whom we might regard as St. Paul termed our “weaker brethren”?

The questions can go on ad infinitum I suppose.

You can only answer them for yourself, and where applicable, your family.

I can tell you with charity and respect that if anyone feels that the current situation warrants one avoiding crowds in church, the Church’s law clearly holds one legitimately excused. This definitely also applies to those who are especially sick who can be said to have a duty to stay home for the duration of their illness.

There may even be the necessity if priests become sick to cancel or reschedule Masses and other normal pastoral or sacramental functions.

As always, let us pray for each other!
Father Hewes

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